http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ GuyTrap--the Gay Attraction, Sex and Love Forum » Recent Posts en Mon, 06 Feb 2012 00:24:41 +0000 http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=2357#post-4252 Wed, 01 Feb 2012 12:18:22 +0000 Aquila 4252@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>That sounds familiar! I have had passionate friendships with several boys who self-defined as straight. Most of these remained friendships, but in one case I felt pretty sure that my friend was as attracted to me as I was to him, so I tried to seduce him, which had disastrous consequences. But I still wonder today whether he did feel attracted to me at the bottom of his heart. Could there be more bisexual men around than we think?<br /> I'm really not sure what to do in your situation. The point is that he has to decide for himself whether he wants to be gay, straight or bisexual. So when he asks you again what it is like to be gay, perhaps you could put on a big smile and ask him whether he is slightly gay himself?<br /> You might want to read the advice of gay life guide Mona to someone in similar circumstances:<br /> <a href="http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexquestionsanswers/qt/turnstraightgay.htm" rel="nofollow">http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexquestionsanswers/qt/turnstraightgay.htm</a><br /> And there is a great video on Youtube about how Will (gay) and RJ (bisexual) got together:<br /> <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVRv3J87Cks" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVRv3J87Cks</a> </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=478#post-4246 Wed, 01 Feb 2012 02:02:38 +0000 johnirace 4246@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Indeed, we are familiar with this one. And my own tip for Gay Travel: Tel-Aviv. As some of you may have heard, it is the Middle-East gay capital, and I must confirm it's not a myth. It's really an incredible place. The weather, the beach, the friendly, open young people and the many clubs and parties. There's always something going on and a good and vivid atmosphere in the streets. There are special gay guides for the city, so make sure you grab one. or even better, grab a local to lead you through.</p> <p>John</p> <p>----------------------------------<br /> "Who, being loved, is poor?"<br /> <a href="http://www.glassesoff.com/?page_id=1235">???improve vision</a><br /> <a href="http://www.glassesoff.com/?page_id=1256">?how to improve eyesight</a> </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=2739#post-4224 Sun, 29 Jan 2012 00:45:03 +0000 Stressed 4224@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>I'm a gay male who has been in a relationship with the same partner for the past 19 years. We have a strong intertwined relationship building up of assets, a business </p> <p>My partner is a very loving man and I do still love him. There is nothing he wouldn't do for me. However I have started to develop a relationship with another person that I have known for the past 3 years. And have since fallen totally in love with this person. It wasn't intensional for a relationship to develop it just did. </p> <p>He shows me affection and makes me feel good about myself. Which hasn't happen in a long time as one could imagine things kinda go stale in the romance department after 19 years. </p> <p>Things between the new man and myself I can only truly describe as amazing. We have so many common interests, sex is great. And I can say and be myself 100%. We text constantly during the day and catchup atleast 4 times a week. And we both find ourselves crying and aching for each other when we're apart. </p> <p>My long term partner and I meet when I just turned 18 and he has been the only love in my life since then. So I have grown from a teenager to a late 30's man with him and I have changed a lot in those years. I love him deeply still but it's not a lovers love I feel for him but more the type of love you feel for a family member. </p> <p>I know in my heart that the new love in my life is better suited to the person I am today but after such a long relationship how to I start a fresh. I don't want to hurt my Long term partner but I feel I need to move on. I still want my partner in my life a a very very close friend. He is family to me. But my heart has been stolen by another</p> <p>I feel guilty for letting this other relationship develop but now I cant imagine my life without him either. He has told me he will wait for me no matter how long it takes. </p> <p>Can someone please advise me what to do. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=2444#post-3928 Sun, 08 Jan 2012 22:35:49 +0000 bmasseur 3928@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>I've been doing some research online about whether the friend zone applies for guys interested in potentially straight men. I found the following reddit question that seemed to offer a lot of advice: <a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/l3l6k/i_am_gay_what_do_i_say_to_a_guy_i_like_but_im_not/" rel="nofollow">http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/l3l6k/i_am_gay_what_do_i_say_to_a_guy_i_like_but_im_not/</a><br /> however the asker needed to take a very different approach from me.<br /> I'm 21 and the guy I like is 18, it's his last year of high school. We have a lot of friends in common and up until now we were only acquantances (seeing each other around more frequently over the last year). In the last month or so we just started hanging out one on one and more frequently.<br /> I have had a lot of experience in propositioning straight friends in the past and they usually take it as a compliment and I spend the next few weeks trying to rid myself of sexual attraction for them (never works completely but I can erase the romantic feelings).<br /> Most of the time it's friends I am really close with (like best friends), it has no effect on the friendship and never becomes anything; because they are straight.<br /> It was really funny reading the linked article because the community offered such a diversity of sincere responses and I've even tried some of the things they were joking about in the past:<br /> [–]Razorwire_Dave 1 point 3 months ago How about: "I love cock, do you love cock? If so, can I suck your cock?" Should work.<br /> .... probably would've worked if the guy wasn't straight.<br /> Anyways, I'm not really too worried about putting the friendship in jeopardy because I'm pretty sure my crush is not homophobic, he's actually a very shy, cute and sweet boy who wouldn't harm a fly; my only concern in this situation is that in only having started hanging with him recently, I haven't ensued enough chillage to be falling into danger of the friend zone (just yet).<br /> For those of you that aren't familiar with the pick-up term "friend zone" it applies to a certain time frame (usually minutes or hours depending on the context of the situation) someone has to build attraction from the target that they are interested in. If one fails to make any kind of move or indication of interest within the time frame they fall into the the target's perspective as just a friend and forever a friend (excepting extenuating circumstances).<br /> I've laid out most of the necessary demonstrations of higher value normally required to build attraction without directly showing I'm interested (even mild heterosexual kino escalation).<br /> I'm wondering however, since the thought of being picked up or flirted with has not crossed my friend's mind (probably) has the friend zone time frame even begun? Or does it even exist in this situation?<br /> The best I can gather from my knowledge and experience is that the friend zone defense time line should not initiate until my crush gets the idea that I'm interested in him. That being the case, is the most logical thing not to let the friendship develop for a few more weeks and pop the question when our connection is already a little stronger?<br /> SECOND: in doing my research I see a lot of people saying that how this question is brought up can make a huge deal and since my crush is show shy I was thinking I wanted to put a little more work than usual into this.<br /> In the past it's usually come up naturally as a point of conversation about someone else and I would say something like, "I know what he's feeling" or just not being able to resist the urge of morning wood and dropping a, "I like cock, do you like cock? How about I suck yours?"<br /> Normally I would just go out and meet someone new but I haven't had any time for dating in the last year or so of my life and then feelings just randomly develop so I figure I may as well act on them as there's no harm.<br /> Any and all advice on whether I should wait and how I should pop the question is greatly appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read and let me know if I can offer any more information to help.<br /> EDIT: The guy I have a crush on probably doesn't know that I'm bisexual; although there is a decent chance that he might. Most of my friends are closely knit together which is why I've been acquainted with this boy for the last few years without chilling with him. I only tell people about my sexuality as it comes it, it has nothing really to do with how close I am to the person. As a result, most of my close friends know along with a handful of people I'm only acquaintances with (I have no disposition or concern for who knows or not but it does make a difference in my approach to the question).<br /> Seeing as me and the crush have never discussed my sexuality I would most logically approach the situation as if he didn't know; however I would say around half of his friends know and they know I don't care who knows so there is a decent possibility they would have mentioned it to my crush. This leaves me the option of going in assuming his ignorance or going in assuming he already knows. Any advice on which would work more to my advantage is greatly appreciated. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=2334#post-3842 Fri, 06 Jan 2012 13:42:14 +0000 actingjavier 3842@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>I wouldnt know about picking up guys but I can help you with your appearance and self-esteem. My advice to you would be to be confortable with yourself, even if you really arent just make it seem like you are. It is very atractive when a guy has confidence in himself and feels good in his own skin. With helping you look a little older than you look I would suggest maybe changing your style a little, hairstyle and the way you act to a more mature person. I myself am very awkward as well so I know how you feel about interacting with guys lol I'd say when talking to a guy you are interested in relax and be yourself. Flirt, make him laugh if you can. You could play around with him and like push him away or something (in a playful way) to test out how he reacts to it. If he pulls away then that isnt a good sign but if he smiles and/or does the same then that is a good sign. Tease them sometimes, this makes them somehow very interested in talking to you for some reason lol Try to be more confortable with guys (or atleast seem that way) and some amazing guy will someday come by and want to be with you :) </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=2357#post-3840 Fri, 06 Jan 2012 12:56:10 +0000 actingjavier 3840@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Hey, I'm a senior in high school and gay. So I have a friend (who is also a senior in high school) that is straight and has a girlfriend. I dont know him very well but he recently has been definetly sending me some weird signals. He talks about me to other people alot (like he wants to know alot about me), he always asks me what it is to be gay and gay related things. He also cares alot about what I think of him and always tries to make conversation with me. I tried testing the waters a bit and flirted with him and instead of freaking out or shutting me down like any other regular straight guy would do, he would smile and flirt back. He would still talk about his girlfriend and stuff so I'm very confused as to what to do because I've started to really like him but I dont want to actually make a move and be denied because he is straight. Oh and when we had our homecoming dance, he saw me dancing with my friends (that were girls) and he left his girlfriend to go dance with me for a whole song. Some other people think he likes guys but arent sure. I need honest opinions and advice please and thank you :) </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=2334#post-3817 Thu, 05 Jan 2012 14:56:24 +0000 Shavian 3817@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Hello guys, name’s Shavian and I’m 20 years of age. I’ve have some experiences with gay men and by some, I mean about three or four in my life. All, of which, I met and felt terribly shy, awkward and downright well unappreciated. It would last only a couple of weeks before I became alone, yet again. Yes I’m a twink and no I’m not effeminate but I’m defiantly a bottom. (Not that anything’s wrong with being effeminate and that there’s any correlation between being effeminate and being a bottom.)I’ve always wanted to be with a real masculine, let’s build a house type of guy but when I see them I turn into jello and can’t operate, and I know that they’re gay. I’m 20, still look like I’m 16 and don’t know how to market myself at all. It’s awkward because I’m tall, lanky, I wear glasses, not muscular and I give off this “don’t touch me” vibe that others seem to listen to very quickly and be on their merry little way. I guess what I would like to know is, how do I pick up a man’s man? How to get pick up by a man’s man? How to stop being a dork? Tips, trademark skills, looks, social skills…. Anything would be nice. Thanks a lot guys. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=285#post-2865 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 20:43:42 +0000 chalybeus9 2865@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>EDP1968, I think your mistake was telling him you had something serious to talk about. If I were you, I would make up something and say it was about a relative who was going through some kind of grieving process over a spouse, but that they had gotten over it very well, and you no longer needed to talk about something serious, but just wanted to hang out. Try to get him to come hang out the first time, and just give slight hints that you like him. The SECOND time he comes over, make a stronger pass at him. Make sure he knows you will hide stuff from his family. I think he needs to know that from you before you proceed. Good luck!</p> <p>Seras, I think having sex with the shades up is a bad idea because it lets his whole family know you are gay. Then he would never want his family to know he knows you/hangs out with you. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=446#post-2864 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 20:26:28 +0000 chalybeus9 2864@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Placid: Perhaps since he is a 10 and you are a 7 or 8 in your own words, he wants you, but doesn't want other people to know. Your best shot is to slip him your no. discretely and tell him you "don't tell tales out of school."</p> <p>Bivaa: Congratulations! </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=188#post-2863 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 20:23:11 +0000 chalybeus9 2863@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Gametocyte: Congratulations! Like Rome82 said, "How hot!" </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=156#post-2862 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 20:20:23 +0000 chalybeus9 2862@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Bivaa: congratulations.</p> <p>Justinian: I would have QUICKLY told the first guy I was just teasing, that he really WAS as hot as the guy in the postcard.</p> <p>Bellidancer5: Tell him it was OK at first to get you hooked, but that now, it's time to stop. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=373#post-2861 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 19:59:02 +0000 chalybeus9 2861@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Alltimesyo was right about discretion. When no one is listening, say you understand if he doesn't want to be seen with customers, but you could meet him after work somewhere where he won't be seen. Slip him your phone no. and disappear. Next time, you're in, discretely flash your eyes at him and hope for the best. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=492#post-2860 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 19:55:06 +0000 chalybeus9 2860@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>I would have left out the part out about getting naked, but I definitely would have said, "Why don't we hang at my house? I have a pool. Do you want to go for a while before you meet your girlfriend?" </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=515#post-2859 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 19:08:22 +0000 chalybeus9 2859@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Newton was right. For me, the being drunk is not necessary, but you should have at least "play wrestled" with him! It almost certainly would have led to what you wanted. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=491#post-2858 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 06:41:53 +0000 chalybeus9 2858@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>He really wants you, but is shy. Next time he "forgets" his bag, make sure he comes over. Then sort of "play" with him to get it back. First, put it behind you to see if he will reach back there. Then, see if he will reach toward your crotch if you put it down there. Hopefully, he will. Then, if he gets it from you after a while, tell him you are going to get it back. "Play" the same game, this time as recipient. Hopefully, he will put it in his crotch area. Reach for it, then grab his crotch on purpose...and leave your hand there. Good luck. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=454#post-2857 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 05:54:38 +0000 chalybeus9 2857@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Well, yes, he is gay like you. But the question is how to tell him you are. You will have to touch him (at the beginning the least bit possible). After some time (meaning the next day), touch him one second more (or a fraction of a second more). Some days later when your time touching him has increased to 2 seconds, start arching your eyebrows at him very fast (in a flash). In the beginning, this should be only once a day. After a few days, make it more frequent. After some more time, tell him your thinking gets muddled when in a group, and that you would appreciate it if he would study alone with you. Just study for the first 10 or 15 minutes. Then pretend your shoulders are sore.</p> <p>Pues, sí es gay como Vd. Pero la cuestión es cómo decírselo. Habrá que tocarlo (al comienzo la menor cantidad que posible). Después de un tiempo (o sea, el próximo día), toquelo un segundo más (o un fracción de segundo más). En unos días cuando el tiempo de tocarlo en la espalda se he aumentado hasta 2 segundos, empieze a arquear las cejas muy rápidamente (el tiempo de un parpadeo). Al comienzo, ese debe estar una vez por día. Después de unos días, hagalo más frecuentemente. Después de un tiempo, digale que Vd. se confunda cuando hay mucha gente estudiando junta, y que Vd. necesita estudiar a sólos con él. Los diez o 15 primeros minutos, estudíense, nada más. Luego finge de dolerse las espaldas.</p> <p>Start massaging his shoulders, telling him your shoulders are sore, and asking him if he will massage your shoulders for 5 minutes if you massage his for 10. When he is massaging yours, express pleasure ("Cool...Wow...Incredible...You're a really good massager," etc. The second day studying alone with him, start massaging him lower, nearer his rear end. The third day while he is massaging you, during your cries of pleasure (without much volume, of course), tell him, "You massage so well, you could do just about anything with me you wanted to."</p> <p>Comienza a masajearlo las espaldas diciendo que a Vd. le duelen las espaldas, y que si Vd. le masajea las espaldas a él por 10 minutos, si él puede masajearle las espaldas a Vd. por 5 minutos. Cuando él lo hace, expresa su placer ("¡Que rico!...¡Wow!...¡Increíble!...¡Tú masejas increíblemente!", etc.). El segundo día de estudios a sólos, comienza a masajearlo más abajo, más cerca del trasero. El tercer día cuando él le masajea a Vd., durante sus "gritos" (cierto, sin mucho volumen) de placer, dile que "Tú me masajeas tan bien que casi podrías hacer conmigo lo que querías."</p> <p>The next time when you massage him, ask him if he wants to turn over so you can massage the front of his legs, (and after a bit of that, take the liberty of massaging his stomach. If he assents to that, it is time to "accidentally" touch his crotch with your elbow. If he assents to that, openly massage his crotch, and he is yours. Good luck!</p> <p>El próximo día cuando Vd. lo masajea a él, pregunatale si quiere voltear para que Vd. pueda masajearlo al frente de las piernas (y después de un poco de eso, tomese la libertad de masajearlo al estomago. Si él acepta eso, la próxima vez, tomese la libertad de masajearlo al pecho. Si acepta eso, es tiempo de "accidentalmente" tocarle el pito (con el codo de un brazo). Si acepta eso, masajealo el pito abiertamente, y él será suyo. ¡Buena suerte! </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=536#post-2856 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 04:27:33 +0000 chalybeus9 2856@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Dude, make a pass already. "He's changed his whole look to reflect mine in some of..."..."I 'liked' one of his newest photos and he made it his profile pic..." He's ready. As Shakespeare said, "Screw your courage to the sticking point" and ask to meet. In your words, he's a "really hot guy." If he's so attracted to you, a) you're very hot as well, or b) you may not be most guys' version of hot, but you're HIS version of hot. (I suspect it's 'a,' not 'b.') Either way, you're very lucky enough to attract him. Time to move. I don't see how you could mess up, short of being some weirdo/stalker. My suggested pickup line: Because of [choose one: a) my job b) my personal preference c) __________ [[insert whatever reason here]] ] I need/want to remain in the closet, at least for a while. But I would really like to meet you. Is there any way we could have a casual date in a coffee shop [or insert some other casual, non-threatening place/time/event here] without my coming out of the closet? [If he rejects your offer (I think that highly unlikely), ask him for a (casual) place/time/event suitable to him. If he suggests a place/time/event that is not casual, don't worry; just accept--you now have a date. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=617#post-2090 Thu, 27 Oct 2011 20:41:19 +0000 Newtothis 2090@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>So as my name suggests Im totally new to this. I was thinking about going to a local Gay bar and trying to either pick someone up or get picked up? I just would like to get some info. What should I do? Is it going to be easy. Anyone got any stories of their first times picking someone up. up until now Ive relied on the internet. I want to try to a face to face pick up. ANY IDEAD's boys??? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=536#post-2009 Sun, 23 Oct 2011 13:50:23 +0000 truthseeker01 2009@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Well, im in a situation where i am attracted to this really hot guy I met on an online dating site. I am at a stalemate in our questionable friend/dating relationship and wondering what to do next in order to hopefully meet for the first time.<br /> I met him online when I was very discrete and curious about my sexuality. But, he is out to everyone. He comes off as a friendly guy but he may be more 'on the prowl' than I think. We have texted back and forth for a couple of months but still have never talked on the phone together. I will admit that I am shy and nervous about going out w/ a guy who is out. In the beginning, I was just looking for friends but now that I am more confident, I would be interested in dating him.<br /> During our texting days, there were times he clearly ignored me. I know I was naive and learning how to text other gay guys. The last text I sent to him was a little over a month ago when I asked why he was ignoring me. He just said he was busy, which is understandable.<br /> Lately, I have been trying to play hard to get by not texting him hoping to get a random response from him. But no such luck.<br /> We're still friends on facebook. He posts a lot of pics of himself posing and showing off his 'guns'. And now it seems he's changed his whole look to reflect mine in some of the latest pics he's posted. Through all of this, I don't want to be a stalker...but he has certainly got my attention a few times. This month, I 'liked' one of his newest photos and he made it his profile pic. So, he is sending me hidden signals/signs? Or, am I wasting my time w/ him? Are we just friends? Is there any chance to move forward with this? Thanks! </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=532#post-2005 Sat, 15 Oct 2011 16:12:57 +0000 tevans41 2005@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Ok. Admitedly, I'm straight, but guys are guys right? I've been asked out by guys and girls both, so when approached by someone interested in getting to know me (or occasionally a hookup) I either accept if it is someone I am attracted to or I find a polite way to decline. On the three occasions that I was asked out by guys, I smiled (blushed the first two times) and politely said "I am very flattered, but I'm straight."</p> <p>In the situation you described, the other gentleman may respond politely with either an affirmation or decline. Then again, he may actually be a jerk and try to embarrass you in public. If that happens, he's not worth worrying about anyway.</p> <p>What concerns me most about your situation, Shy, is your reticence and the fact that you are still closeted. This is the new millennium and it's now ok to be gay. It sounds as though you are concerned about the opinions of others and make your decisions based on what other people do or will think of you. Trust me on this, gay or straight, potential partners respond positively more often to someone who is confident and sure of him/herself.</p> <p>Being concerned for your reputation is a good thing, but not when it comes at a cost of who you are. Be proud of who you are and never be ashamed of who or how you love. Take a chance with Mr. Deli guy. Put yourself at risk and either find the love of your life or take a lump and learn from the experience. Best of luck, and let me know what happens. :)</p> <p>P.S. Check out the lead post under DEALING WITH REGRET FOR MISSED OPPERTUNITIES + VALUABLE RESOURCES TO HELP. The_cause has given some excellent advice that quite honestly can be helpful regardless of your orientation. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=533#post-2004 Sat, 15 Oct 2011 15:51:52 +0000 tevans41 2004@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>My name is Thomas. I am a writer, usually fanfiction, but I am in the process of writing an original story. Sometimes when I want to take a break from my original story, I like to write short stories based on the works of other authors. I recently got the idea to write a romantic/erotic story about the Three Musketeers as if the heroes were gay. Unfortunately, I know absolutely nothing about what kind of romance or eroticism appeals to the GLBT community. Can someone please help me develop my story in a way that neither offends or embarrasses anyone, yet appeals to all and entices my readers? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=532#post-2003 Sat, 15 Oct 2011 09:49:00 +0000 shy427 2003@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Hi,<br /> Its my first post here and Im looking for some tips and suggestions for what to do or say in the following situation.</p> <p>I met a really hot guy in this new take-away sandwich shop yesterday and I wanted to see if he was gay/interested in me too. It is rare that I meet a guy I am hot for, and I don't know anyone else who is gay. I am closeted and a total amateur and in the end, I played it too safe, so I was left without knowing if he was gay and interested.</p> <p>What I did, I waited until it was my turn to order, smiled at him, and asked him very politely if he has already ordered. The shop is very cramped with no system to it, and he replied politely that he had already ordered.</p> <p>I then tried to show a little personalty by asking the lady behind the counter what it was they put in the tuna special that makes it special? but after ordering, I did not know what more to say, and so squeezed over to the guy and waited next to him until he received his order and walked out.</p> <p>I felt like a total chump standing there next to him, not doing anything, but I wasn't about to make a pass on someone who may have been straight, especially not considering there were no other conversations going on.</p> <p>Its quite likely that I will meet him in there again as he was young and wearing shoes, so clearly on his lunch break as well.</p> <p>The problem is how to find out if he is interested, and then, how to ask him out subtly with all those others hanging around? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=505#post-2002 Tue, 11 Oct 2011 03:00:25 +0000 Albus316 2002@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Saaay whaaaaat? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=509#post-2001 Mon, 10 Oct 2011 09:23:47 +0000 Albus316 2001@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Yh, i might be. How old r u? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=531#post-2000 Mon, 10 Oct 2011 05:34:30 +0000 Albus316 2000@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>I'm at that age were im rly horny and am looking for someone to share photos with... email me @ <a href="mailto:flamesjames316@hotmail.co.uk">flamesjames316@hotmail.co.uk</a> make the subject: 'photo sharing - i'm interested'.</p> <p>BTW I have an underwear (like rly skimpy, sxy enderwear)... (or just rly tight, or see through, or wet) fetish. Plz take into account...? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=445#post-1995 Fri, 23 Sep 2011 08:40:45 +0000 DanielPT 1995@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>*I mean how did u do the close-up? :s </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=445#post-1994 Fri, 23 Sep 2011 08:39:51 +0000 DanielPT 1994@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>I feel kinda the same way u do. I got a friend that is close to me and ive taken proof that he might be at least bi too. Maybe I'll try the sneaky closing-up and see what he does: turn away or get closer... What did really happen with ur first bf? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=530#post-1993 Wed, 21 Sep 2011 07:47:51 +0000 Xdrewx 1993@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>There is a guy I really like on this online chat I get on and I want to seduce him to point where he is going to find me irresistible and want to date me. Do you have any tips that would help me out. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=529#post-1992 Mon, 19 Sep 2011 05:30:09 +0000 Hellboy 1992@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Hey Guys! </p> <p>I am a 19 year old college guy. I saw this hot bartender in a pub. When I ordered a drink I realised I liked him. I was gazing him with such admire. But then I just gave up, as I thought myself that I won't see him again in my life, probably...After few days, suddenly I saw him again in a cafee. I was staring him secretly, but this time I caught him looking back to me. I kept looking him several times, and so did he. This made me feel hope and made think to go further. I went to that pub again and stayed next to the bar near to him. We shared again those secret glances to each other. Sometimes he was avoiding eye contact and feeling uncomfortable, when I was watching him directly and uninterruptedly. I deeply want to know this guy more and to ask him out, but it seems too risky. I have no idea about his thoughts, feelings and sexuality. Besides, the fact that I live in a homophobic-cultural country, where gay people are hardly ever found in these grounds, makes me feel doubtful to make this step. The worst thing is that I don't know even his name, nor have I any ideas about who he is, cuz he was too occuppied with working and serving people that I couldn't have any chance of chatting. </p> <p>What do you guys think? Is he into me? How to make my first contact with him? In 2 weeks I will leave abroad for my studies and I want so much to keep in touch with this guy. Please help me !!!! </p> <p>Thank you!! ;)<br /> Yours, Hell Boy </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=528#post-1991 Wed, 14 Sep 2011 21:09:54 +0000 amigoamin 1991@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>Hello everyone,<br /> I get to know about this site only today,and I've read some of the posts and comments,and so with a hope that might be able to read and offer me some advice.<br /> I'm gonna tell a problem that's been bugging me a lot.</p> <p>I am a 25 yr old gay guy. I started having sex since i was 20.<br /> I live in a place where homosexuality is still a taboo and meeting a guy in everyday life is next to impossible.<br /> But,there's the internet.So I've met all the guys from internet only.<br /> we would meet up and as a date or sex depends on the mood and likings.</p> <p>I've had sex with about 15 guys.<br /> All the encounters were a one -time thing except 3 times we met again for the second round. And only one guy have fucked me more than thrice.</p> <p>I am a total bottom,i think.<br /> That is the problem - I do not get turned on during sexual acts.<br /> and never could maintain a hard on during sex(cumming is out of the question).<br /> that's why i always bottomed.</p> <p>I understand not able to have a hard-on with guys that i do not like that much but had sex with anyway.<br /> But even with guys that i really liked and enjoyed their company.<br /> At the initial act,during kissing and body-plays...i would get hard and enjoyed.<br /> but if a guy sucks me,i would instantly lost my hard on.<br /> and during anal sex..i would never have a hard on,so i would not enjoy it..but keep on doing it because i want to please the guy or with a hope that i would enjoy it.<br /> Only one time i remember i actually enjoyed being fucked.But even then i did not have a hard-on but felt a good sensation from my anus to my whole body.</p> <p>I like it when i guy pays more attention to my rear end..butt touching,rimming etc.<br /> but when it comes to the actual penetration,it does not hurt but i do not enjoy it at all.<br /> And i would like to know how it feels to put your hard penis inside a guy feels like also.<br /> but never able to get a hard-on enough to penetrate.</p> <p>Most tops ive been with,when i ask them,said that the bottom usually stroke themselves and cum while being fucked,or they will come when being sucked.<br /> I've watched porn and know how a bottom should attain pleasure and cum during sex.<br /> Once a guy i was with advised me to use viagra. But i feel kind of bad to use Viagra when i am only 25.<br /> When I watch porn,gay sexual acts,and hot guys on screen or in real life.<br /> I do get turned on...and able to jerk off fantasizing.<br /> So,its not like I'm impotent or having erectile disorders.<br /> I could jerk off four to five times a day when in mood.</p> <p>I would like to find a guy,have sex,attain pleasure and cums.<br /> I want to have a good sexual life.<br /> And not able to get a hard-on really stands in the way of that. </p> <p>So,the main questions are "Why Is it like this?"<br /> What could be the reason?<br /> What can i do to fix the problem? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=518#post-1990 Sun, 11 Sep 2011 03:33:10 +0000 damonochrom 1990@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>thanks, that's really cool! </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=526#post-1988 Wed, 24 Aug 2011 09:10:27 +0000 gribble101 1988@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>if you would like to have fun ring me now </p> <p> 07826808815 </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=524#post-1984 Thu, 18 Aug 2011 05:32:03 +0000 jackskid72 1984@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>so how long does it really take to get over your first true love? he's 28, i'm 39. dropped the l bomb in January. he started backing off in March. Asked him if he needed a break from me in April. "Borrowed" 600 bucks from me in May. Broke up with me 3 weeks before my brother passed away. had me on the phone the entire week i was out for my brother, and wouldn't look me in the eye when i asked if we could give it another shot. alpha male bastard. </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=505#post-1979 Tue, 26 Jul 2011 18:39:42 +0000 bivaa 1979@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>wtf?? </p> http://www.guytrap.com/bp/topic.php?id=490#post-1978 Sat, 23 Jul 2011 23:58:59 +0000 guitarist101 1978@http://www.guytrap.com/bp/ <p>My first time was great. The only thing I wasn't expecting was the actual feeling of someone behind me. You should try a toy first. If you like it, then you'll love it with another man, the real thing feels so much better. </p>