Hey Guys,

I'm a senior in high-school and there's this guy who "teases/jokes" around with me sexually. He's a straight football player/jock who is VERY good looking. Anyways, he teases me by grabbing, and spanking my butt. What can I do because whenever he does it I end up laughing b/c I kinda like it due to him being really good looking. Another scenario I have is when I decided to use the restroom he suddenly grabs me with other guys looking "We f^&k in here." I seriously don't know what to do b/c I'm not out (only to close friends) and I really like his personality and he's just perfect lol smart, sexy, and has a hot bod.

Thank you if anyone can help =)

Grab back.
And 'joke' about it.
Then wait till a party, watch him get drunk and joke around then too.

'Wanna play chicken?'

10 bucks says you'll shag him.

Thanks =)

Oooh, you are good Seras!

Haha. I am positive you'd do the same!

Get the straight guy "drunk." That's always a classic because after you blow him, get him to suck you and/or fuck him, he can claim he was so drunk he didn't know what he was doing. hee hee.

Im also in high school and i need help too. ive known since probably around 7th or 8th grade i was gay. My parents always thought i would be gay because when i was little i used to have more fun playing girl stuff with my sister then boy stuff with my brother. In middle school lots of people thought i was gay because i always wore nice clothes and had a lot of girls that were friends. Now in high school though people dnt think im gay at all because i have tons of friends party alot date girls and act straight (kinda natural to me)...I have had lots of girlfriends who ive had sex with and currently have one who ive had sex with about three or four times already. I like her and its not awful or anything having sex with her but im just not attracted to girls like i am guys. I am somewhat attracted to girls but only when it gets real intimate. i guess maybe this means im bi? idk. anyways i know im gay because i check out guys in my school and just want to get close to them so bad. Not a single soul knows im gay so its not like i can talk about this to anyone. My family thinks im straight now because i always have hot girlfriends that come over and i act straight. My parents have said to me things before like " we thought for sure you were gonna be gay when you were older, thank god your not." and stuff like that.so ive gone through high school telling myself that ill never tell anyone im gay and just get married have kids and have a perfectly straight life so i wont dissapoint my family (kinda homophobic). But now as im getting older i just wanna be with a guy so bad. but idk where or how i can meet someone my age thats gay and not have my cover blown. Also, im only attracted to guys that are athletic and act like guys not girls. Basically a straight gay guy if that makes sense. sure there are a few gay guys in my school but theyre FLAMERS. i feel like there has to be guys in my school who act straight like me but are really gay. i wish i could tell who though. Im kinda looking for like a secret boyfriend or guy i can just hook up with because im not ready to come out or anything at this point in my life. some idk what to do... i wanna find someone who you cant tell is gay...i dnt know anyone who is gay...i dnt know where to look... any ideas or anything i need help!!

mastiff09 why don't you private message gjoseph? Sounds like you have a lot to talk about....

If your having sex with girls and also attracted to boys, then you are bi, not gay. bi is both, gay is just one.
If you are not 100% satisfied with girls but think you would be with guys, then forget it. stick with girls even if they satisfy a little. don't pursue the gay thing ever again. Trust me, life will be easier as a straight guy. Now , if you are 100% gay, then that tactic will not work.
Older straight married men often say that sex is not as much fun anymore, and they are tired of it, food is what they crave forever. you get old, then it's a lot about the relationship , not sexual attraction.
If the ball player is grabbing your butt, then he has uncontrollable sexual urges towards you, but knows better than to be gay. you have to play along, be very dramatic with playing along and one up him somehow, but in a way that is fun and accectable to all around. put your hands on his chest like you are touching boobies. cover your crotch and tell him your too shy for that. be silly. put your hand on his back, keep it there, then rub when no one can see. if he waits, then good, if he removes your arm immediatly then bad.